Well, if you want to go all ev-psych you could tell a story about how we evolved to better pass on our genes so that's the only reason why we love our children blah blah. But I don't put much stock in ev-psych as a rule--at least not when it's so simplified.
Culture and biology are so inextricably linked it almost doesn't make sense to talk about what the origin was. More important is whether or not we can change it, and I think we can. Biology isn't destiny. True. It's a dinosaur or egg question, to use an evolutionary term. Agreed that it can be changed. Indeed. No need to go like "Pass the salt, adopted child of mine," lol. LOL
Hmmm. I hadn't heard of that before--that is interesting. But I think that's less biology and more, um, really early life experience? Before they're even supposed to remember life experience? I guess you could say it like that.
I do feel sad as well thinking about someone being unable to find their biological parents, but again I don't know whether that's instinctual or not. Anyway, I have no problem with someone wanting to know their biological parents; but I also have no problem with someone not wanting to know their biological parents either. It's up to them. rereading that I'm a bit horrified at how that sounded - I don't believe that feelings should be a base for an argument. As you mentioned, practically speaking, instinctual can be either bio or culture (or a million other things).
(There's an interesting TV show called "Switched at Birth" that deals with these issues, among others...) I only read. :)
Haha. Quite possibly. I'll have to try it out myself first and see. Yep. I never heard anyone say that raising kids was easier than being one, though.
I agree. You might enjoy this post. I did, thanks.
I think plenty of people learn to think of another being before themselves without having to get pregnant. Yes - they are usually good parents, but any parent has to.
Yeah, I know. You may be right. This is the kind of thing that's impossible to test, so we'll probably never know for sure. Precisely.
I wouldn't know. Surprised there isn't a TV show about that.
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Well, if you want to go all ev-psych you could tell a story about how we evolved to better pass on our genes so that's the only reason why we love our children blah blah. But I don't put much stock in ev-psych as a rule--at least not when it's so simplified.
Culture and biology are so inextricably linked it almost doesn't make sense to talk about what the origin was. More important is whether or not we can change it, and I think we can. Biology isn't destiny.
True. It's a dinosaur or egg question, to use an evolutionary term.
Agreed that it can be changed.
Indeed. No need to go like "Pass the salt, adopted child of mine," lol.
LOL
Hmmm. I hadn't heard of that before--that is interesting. But I think that's less biology and more, um, really early life experience?
Before they're even supposed to remember life experience? I guess you could say it like that.
I do feel sad as well thinking about someone being unable to find their biological parents, but again I don't know whether that's instinctual or not. Anyway, I have no problem with someone wanting to know their biological parents; but I also have no problem with someone not wanting to know their biological parents either. It's up to them.
rereading that I'm a bit horrified at how that sounded - I don't believe that feelings should be a base for an argument.
As you mentioned, practically speaking, instinctual can be either bio or culture (or a million other things).
(There's an interesting TV show called "Switched at Birth" that deals with these issues, among others...)
I only read. :)
Haha. Quite possibly. I'll have to try it out myself first and see.
Yep. I never heard anyone say that raising kids was easier than being one, though.
I agree. You might enjoy this post.
I did, thanks.
I think plenty of people learn to think of another being before themselves without having to get pregnant.
Yes - they are usually good parents, but any parent has to.
Yeah, I know. You may be right. This is the kind of thing that's impossible to test, so we'll probably never know for sure.
Precisely.
I wouldn't know.
Surprised there isn't a TV show about that.