See, I don't see that as following. I see Anna being tryign to take control from the back. She places the restrictions she thinks she can on Alex, and slowly is reining her in. the problem isnt' so much that she's a 'follower' as it is that Alex is a rather thoughtless friend.. .and right NOW would be a pretty poor lover. She isn't READY for a relationship.. not even with another "leader'. She needs to start thinking more about those around her :) and that's true for friendships and relationships both... and when she matures like that... I think Anna would be a good pair for her :D Heck, getting together with Anna could be the thing that mellows her out--when she realizes that hurting her loved one REALLY hurts and is bad... encouraging the equalization :)

Yeah.. It's not so much that she's a leader00she is, but it's more that she's thoughtless. SHe's getting better, but isn't there yet XD